Men carry the heavy furniture up the stairs. Women take the smaller things or unpack and arrange what’s in the boxes.

It’s sexism. But is it bad?

Probably 90% are perfectly fine doing it that way.

What’s the percentage of women who actually want to be the primary caretaker?

Adjusted for an always nonzero influence of society. Could make sense to only look at the 25% of women who are the most independent decision makers.

How to measure the ability of a person to make independent choices…

I’m not sure. There is no clear border between who I am and what my surroundings are.