I disagree only with the “too much” point on the list.

It’s not too much of a person/woman. Everybody likes engaged people.

It’s just too much of a topic I frankly don’t care that much about.

It’s as if the guys who try to listen recieve all the memos that are mostly directed at those who don’t.

To say that then means I’m part of the problem. I get it.

Explaining that other problems also need to be tackled… well, same story.

It’s the lazy way out. Offend her a little so she shuts up.

Then I can go fix the drain while planning my next project.